Tuesday, August 30, 2016

The Little Things are the Big Things


Waking up from my first nap since I began this program will definitely be a memory to cherish! Naps don't come by very often as a medical student; well at least not with me. I have begun my 4th week of my MERP program and just finished my last quiz before my first Mini (Exam) of the program and I wanted to reflect on what has gotten me through these past few weeks.

Trying to balance learning new material, reviewing old material, attempting to get at least 4 hours of sleep a night, along with eating a well-balanced diet, have all been difficult to say the least but not impossible. A few things I have found to really keep my spirits lifted through this journey include: relationships, relaxation and imperfection. 

When I first began this program, I told many people I would be very busy and if I don't respond to a text or call, please do not get offended. I later realized, regardless of the circumstances you find yourself in, you make time for things that are important to you. I have found great peace in those phone and Face Time conversations with friends, family and of course my dogs. I love the encouraging text, the jokes and especially the funny Memes; sometimes those laughs me get through the day. If I can give you one word of advice, it would be to never forget the people who helped you get to where you are. There will always be rough days when you have had enough and just want to de-stress; make sure you have those shoulders to lean on and haven't burned those bridges because you were too busy.  

Relaxation may seem like an impossible feat while being a medical student but I have found that being relaxed is one of the most important things during this journey. Most of the time, chaos does not yield success. Being a medical student or being in any rigorous academic program is physically, mentally and emotionally draining and in order to perform well, your mind must be at ease. I choose to make church, prayer and exercising my priorities next to studying and talking to family.  I always carve out time in my day to pray, go to church on Sundays and do small exercises in my room (I have been so busy and haven’t made it to the gym yet), whether it’s ab work outs, stretching or breathing exercises. It’s important to take care of yourself because you need the physical, emotional and spiritual stamina to get through it. Try to keep studying and free time separate. Study time is study time and free time is free time and always remember, it’s a marathon, not a sprint! 

Lastly, be content with imperfection. Some people get so caught up in studying and striving for perfection that they forget to enjoy the journey. Don’t get so caught up in figuring everything out that you forget to enjoy the ride. Always strive for excellence, not perfection because those of excellence live comfortably but perfectionist don’t live at all! I will be taking my first Mini exam on Sept 9th. It's a 2hr 45min exam so please keep me in your prayers for a good outcome! Thanks for reading ❤️

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